Some of our clients like to cast their net as wide as possible. They have not only chosen to work with a Matchmaker but have also continued with online dating. And when asked, we are happy to review their dating strategy and how they are presenting themselves online.
And we have found that even with a few tweaks here and there to profiles, picture selection and messaging, our clients are seeing better results. Less time spent on the sites and more time going out on dates. We’re good at it!
One-on-one coaching can also be another way to get better results from being your own matchmaker. Let’s face it, dating is not always easy and intuitive even if you are being proactive. We can bring a lot of “stuff” to the process that clouds our judgement and can get in the way of finding that special someone.
A Dating Coach can help you get back out there after a long relationship has ended, build confidence, or break the same dating and relationship patterns that have held you back. Having an impartial professional to talk to and provide guidance (and yes, accountability) will give you a fresh start and can bring real results.
So being your own Matchmaker doesn’t mean you have to go it alone! Dating, especially if it’s not going well and you feel like you are spinning your wheels, can be isolating. We can provide encouragement and a safe place to discover what might be holding you back and then suggest the steps to move you forward.
Terran Shea is a Matchmaker and Dating Expert with www.MutualMatch.ca